After taking a taxi ride through the crowded streets of Addis — blue Lada taxis, modern buildings surrounded by crooked wooden scaffolding, and people everywhere being the most outstanding sights — we arrived at the Ghion Hotel, whose website claims that it boasts “specious” gardens.
We showered in our rather funky room, sitting in the tub rather than standing because the attachment for the shower head was broken, and dried ourselves on tiny towels the texture of Swedish crispbread.
The orphanage was kind enough to arrange for a ride over for us so that we could meet our daughter, Maia Bereket. The orphanage is tucked away at the end of an alley off a sidestreet that comes off of Ras Biru, and protected by heavy metal gates and a guard.
It turned out that we’d arrived on the morning that the staff were cleaning out the babies’ dormitories (the babies sleep eight to a room) and all the children were lined up on the floor of one of the rooms in the adjoining guest house. It’s rather terrifying to walk around in a room in which around 25 babies form a living, crawling, crying carpet.
Fortunately one of the four nurses in the room brought Maia Bereket to us. I’d been told they sometimes play a game of making adoptive parents figure out which child is theirs — no easy task when you’ve only seen one or two photographs and when the babies are all so young.

Maia was very calm and content to be held by us. We sat with her for a while, taking turns to hold her. With so many kids being crowded into a small room with so few adults I ended up being a makeshift nurse, feeding and comforting other children. Eventually we took her through to the dining room where we were able to give her more attention.
It’s a strange thing to meet your child for the first time, especially when you’re jet-lagged after 23 hours of traveling. I looked at this tiny, beautiful child and found it hard to believe that she was really ours, and that she would be part of our lives from that time on.