One of the most difficult areas of practice for me is remembering to have a compassionate attitude towards people in the media who have opinions that I strongly disagree with. My mind’s habitual tendency is to assume they are stupid (they hold views that are, from my point of view, self-evidently wrong) or evil (they know they are wrong but have chosen to be so in order to further some political or social agenda). William Kristol is a good test case. At times I find it very hard to let go of those two main habitual tendencies and to understand why he believes what he believes.
Kristol was recently taken on as a weekly columnist for the Times, despite the fact that he had just been fired from another position, is on record as saying that the Times is at best a second-rate publication, and has opined that the Times committed treason by revealing that the government was illegally spying on its own citizens. And despite the fact that he was one of the main architects of the Iraq war, which he had helped plan years before 9/11, and his repeated errors in predicting the outcome of that war, the presence of WMDs, the likelihood of Sunni/Shia violence, etc.
His first column was a classic, with both a prediction that Obama would win New Hampshire and, as a bonus, a misattributed quote, which required a correction to be appended to later editions.
Well, in today’s column about Obama he outdoes himself. And I find it hard to think of him as anything but either stupid or malicious. But it’s a good practice to avoid doing so.
Just as one example, where he quotes Michelle Obama:
Michell Obama: “Barack Obama … is going to demand that you shed your cynicism. That you put down your divisions. That you come out of your isolation, that you move out of your comfort zones. That you push yourselves to be better. And that you engage. Barack will never allow you to go back to your lives as usual, uninvolved, uninformed.”
Bill Kristol: “So we don’t have to work to improve our souls. Our broken souls can be fixed — by our voting for Barack Obama. We don’t have to fight or sacrifice to help our country.”
Look back at what Michelle Obama said, and then look again at Kristol’s spin on it.
“We don’t have to work to improve our souls,” compared to:
- shed your cynicism
- put down your divisions
- come out of your isolation
- move out of your comfort zones
- push yourselves to be better
- engage
Notice all those verbs. This is Kristol’s idea of “not working to improve” ourselves. This is his idea of “not fighting or sacrificing to help our country.”
How can Kristol, a supposedly intelligent man, dismiss the actions — painful, difficult, sacrificial work as tey are — that Michelle Obama is calling for as being the antithesis of action?
Presumably Kristol is not stupid. He know what a verb is. He knows what Michelle Obama is actually saying. I’ll try to avoid thinking that he’s evil (despite the fact that his own brand of “sacrifice” involves spinning lies about weapons of mass destruction, a quick war, and a gratefully liberated people, and thereby sending thousands of people off to die while remaining far, far away from any possibility of taking up arms himself).
I can only think that he’s genuinely blinded himself to the words he reads. He’s desperate for another neo-con president (President Mike Huckabee? — another misstep by Kristol) and he hates the idea of a Democratic president. He wants a muscular, manly, missile-launching Republican (possibly McCain, who is “manly, courageous and principled“) who will “protect” us by listening in to all of our phone calls and reading all of our emails and who will do whatever he wants because real men make up the law as they go along — they are the law — and will oppose big government while making sure that the government has unchecked powers to make people disappear and torture them.
Kristol really, really hated the idea of Hillary Clinton in the White House, and Barack Obama wouldn’t be as bad as that, but he still utterly hates that idea. Kristol hates the idea od Barack being president, and Barack therefore must be a bad person, and therefore must be completely unlike the kind of manly man Kristol idolizes and fantasizes himself to be, and therefore cannot be calling upon people to make sacrifices and work on themselves because that’s the kind of thing a Republican would do (except they don’t — let’s fight terrorism by going shopping).
So Kristol is neither stupid nor evil, as I am habitually driven to think, but is merely so blinded by his own delusion that he literally can’t see the words that he himself writes.
He can’t even see that the fault he accuses Obama of — being merely words without substance — is exactly his own defining flaw. They have a word for this. They call it projection. It’s where someone is unable to see flaws that they detest in their own character and so they see and detest them in others — even when others are free of those flaws themselves.
So back to compassion. I haven’t managed to arouse much compassion for Kristol, but at least I’ve managed to get to the point where I’m no longer thinking of him as stupid or evil. I can see him instead as trapped in a particular set of views, and at least that’s a start.